So you’ve decided to take the plunge and book your first cruise—exciting! I’ve been helping travelers navigate the world of cruising for many years, and I can tell you that first-timers often feel a mix of anticipation and a “wait, what do I actually need to know?” Don’t worry—I’ve got you covered.
Cruising is one of my favorite ways to travel (and to plan for my clients), but it does come with its own quirks. Let’s walk through what you really need to know to make your first sailing smooth, stress-free, and absolutely worth it.
Start With the Right Cruise
Here’s the thing: not all cruises are the same, and picking the wrong one can leave you feeling like you’re on someone else’s vacation. Before you get dazzled by that sunset deck photo, think about what kind of experience you actually want.
Are you traveling with kids who need constant entertainment? A family-focused cruise line with water parks and kids’ clubs might be your best bet. Want adults-only pool time and a quieter vibe? Look for ships that cater to couples or have dedicated adult-only areas. Into adventure? Some itineraries are packed with active shore excursions, while others focus more on relaxation at sea.
And if you’re not sure you’re a “cruise person” yet, start with a shorter sailing—three to five days is perfect for dipping your toes in without committing to a week at sea. You can always book a longer trip once you’ve got your sea legs.
Know What You’re Actually Paying For
One of the biggest surprises for first-time cruisers? Figuring out what’s included and what’s going to hit your credit card as an extra charge. And here’s where the type of cruise you choose makes a huge difference.
If you’re sailing on a mass-market cruise line—think the big ships with water slides and Broadway shows—your cruise fare typically covers your stateroom, meals in the main dining room and buffet, most onboard entertainment, and access to pools and fitness areas. But specialty restaurants, alcohol, sodas, Wi-Fi, spa services, shore excursions, and even gratuities? Those usually cost extra.
Before you sail, take a look at what packages your cruise line offers. Beverage packages can be worth it if you enjoy cocktails by the pool, and specialty dining packages might save you money if you want to try those upscale restaurants a few times. I always tell my clients to budget for extras—because once you’re on board and someone’s offering you a piña colada, you’re probably going to say yes.
Now, river cruises and expedition cruises work differently. Yes, they typically cost more upfront, but that higher price usually includes things like beverages (including alcohol), Wi-Fi, excursions in every port, and sometimes even gratuities. It’s a more all-inclusive experience, which means fewer surprise charges and less mental math while you’re trying to relax.
The key is understanding what kind of cruise experience you want—and what’s actually included—before you book. That way, you can budget accordingly and enjoy your trip without any sticker shock.
Pack Smarter, Not Harder
Packing for a cruise is a little different than packing for a resort, and it’s easy to overthink it. Here’s my advice: check your cruise line’s dress code ahead of time. Most days will be casual—think shorts, sundresses, and swimsuits—but evenings can vary from “nice casual” to full-on formal nights with tuxedos and gowns.
Pack at least one dressier outfit for formal night (yes, most cruises still have them), and bring layers if your itinerary includes ports with cooler weather. Don’t forget sunscreen, seasickness remedies if you’re prone to motion sickness, and any prescription medications—you don’t want to be hunting down a pharmacy in a foreign port.
Pro tip: bring a small carry-on with your essentials for the first day. Your luggage won’t arrive at your cabin right away, so having a swimsuit, change of clothes, and any must-haves with you means you can start enjoying the ship immediately.
Arrive Early—Seriously
I can’t stress this enough: get to your departure city the day before your cruise leaves, especially if you’re flying in. Flight delays happen, and cruise ships don’t wait for late arrivals. Building in that buffer day means you can relax, explore the port city, and show up to the terminal ready to vacation—not frantically running through an airport.
On embarkation day, aim to arrive during your assigned boarding window (or even a little early). The earlier you board, the more time you’ll have to explore the ship, grab lunch, and maybe even hit the pool before it gets crowded.

Get Your Bearings on Board
Once you step on the ship, it’s easy to feel a little overwhelmed—these things are massive. Take some time on your first day to walk around and get oriented. Find the dining rooms, the pool deck, the theater, and the spots you’ll want to visit regularly.
Here’s something that catches a lot of first-timers off guard: embarkation day is going to feel crowded. Everyone’s exploring, claiming pool chairs, wandering the decks, and trying to figure out where everything is. It can feel a bit chaotic. But here’s the good news—by the next morning, everything thins out. People settle into their routines, find their favorite spots, and suddenly the ship feels way more spacious and relaxed.
Most cruise lines have an app you can download before you sail, and trust me, it’s a game-changer. You can check daily schedules, make dining reservations, see what activities are happening, and even message your travel companions if you get separated. I always tell my clients to download it and set up your favorites early—it’ll save you so much time and help you navigate that first day with way less stress.
Make Shore Excursions Work for You
One of the best parts of cruising is waking up in a new destination without having to pack and unpack your suitcase. But here’s where first-timers sometimes miss the mark: they either over-plan or don’t plan at all.

And if you just want to explore on your own? That’s totally fine too. Some ports are perfect for wandering, grabbing lunch at a local spot, and soaking up the culture without a set itinerary.
Embrace Sea Days
If you’re used to jam-packed vacation schedules, sea days might feel strange at first. No ports to explore, just… the ship. But here’s the secret: sea days are fantastic.
This is when you can actually enjoy everything the ship has to offer without rushing. Try that cooking class, get a massage, lounge by the pool with a book, or catch the afternoon trivia game. Check the daily schedule (delivered to your cabin or on the app) and try something new. Some of my clients say sea days end up being their favorite part of the trip because they finally feel like they can just be.
Know How to Get Off the Ship (Yes, Really)
Disembarkation might not be the most glamorous part of cruising, but knowing what to expect makes it way easier. Most cruise lines give you two options: carry your own luggage off early in the morning (great if you have a flight to catch), or leave your bags outside your cabin the night before and wait for your assigned departure time.
If you’re flying home, give yourself plenty of cushion between disembarkation and your flight. Customs, luggage claim, and transportation can take longer than you think, especially on bigger ships with thousands of passengers.
Ready to Set Sail?
Your first cruise can be an incredible experience—one that might just turn you into a repeat cruiser (I’ve seen it happen more times than I can count). With a little preparation and the right mindset, you’ll be ready to enjoy every moment, from that first sail-away party to your final sunrise at sea.
If you’re thinking about booking your first cruise and want help choosing the right ship, itinerary, or cabin, I’d love to chat. I’ve been doing this for years, and I genuinely love matching people with their perfect cruise experience—whether that’s a river cruise through Europe, a family-friendly mega-ship, or an adults-only escape to the Caribbean.
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