Hawaii is one of the most common bucket list destinations for many people, and it sees millions of visitors every year. Planning a vacation to Hawaii is also no easy task, and first-time visitors can make plenty of mistakes without the help of someone who knows the islands.
We’ll go over 10 mistakes first-time visitors to Hawaii make and some tips on how to avoid them.
1. Assuming All of the Islands Are the Same
One of the biggest mistakes first-time visitors to Hawaii make is making this assumption. Eight major islands make up Hawaii, but only six of the islands are where the tourists go. These islands are: Oahu, Kauai, Molokai, Lanai, Maui, and the island of Hawaii (also known as the Big Island). Choosing the right island for you will be determined by the vibe and experiences you want to have during your trip.
You can easily have a different experience on each island, so it’s best to do your research or have a professional help you find the right fit. From popular spots like Pearl Harbor and Waikiki on Oahu to seeing an active volcano on the Big Island, the islands are as unique as their names. My comprehensive Hawaii Guide breaks down each island’s personality, the best times to visit, and the top attractions you won’t want to miss – it’s the perfect starting point for choosing your ideal Hawaiian destination.
2. Failing to Rent a Car
The islands may seem small, but renting a car will be the best thing you’ve ever done. Everything is just a bit farther out than comfortable traveling car-free. Public transportation and Ubers are only reliable on Oahu, so you could get away with it there, but it’s not convenient.
There are tons of places in the world where you don’t need a car, but Hawaii is not one of them. To explore any of the islands of Hawaii fully, you’re going to need a car to get around to all of the wonderful places you’ll want to see.
3. Spending the Majority of Your Time at Your Resort
The resorts in Hawaii are great, and most of them have incredible amenities, but there’s so much more to the islands than what’s curated and cultivated within the grounds of your resort. Most people don’t realize that by law, all of the beaches in Hawaii are public, so you are not limited to accessing the beach in front of your hotel.
The best parts of Hawaii are away from the resorts. With the beautiful biology, unique and intricate ecosystems, and stunning Instagram-perfect scenery, don’t be afraid to get out and see what the island has to offer. Hawaii is a safe place to explore, so don’t be scared to experience the island by sharing in the daily life of the local people.
4. Booking Too Many Tours and Activities for Your Trip
Even if you’re in paradise, there are still only 24 hours in a day. Keep that in mind when planning your trip. Between guided tours, sightseeing excursions, hiking to waterfalls, and staring into the glow of a volcano, you’re still going to need some downtime as well as time to eat and sleep.
Try to keep a balance so you can explore, rest, and take in the magic of the islands. The whole point of most vacations is to slow down from the daily hustle and bustle of life. Take some time to wander the local towns, eat authentic foods, chill at the beach, and get to know your temporary neighbors.
Hawaii is a place with slow-paced, intentional living, and this vacation is your opportunity to live and learn with intention. When you stuff too much new information into each day, you can quickly become overwhelmed and forget why you took the trip in the first place.
5. Not Understanding “Island Time”
When you see a car with a “slow down, this ain’t the mainland” bumper sticker, take notice. Island time is referred to as a slower pace of life in the islands. This doesn’t mean everyone is moving like sloths, but it does mean that it’s part of their way of life, so be sure to respect that. Life moves a bit slower in Hawaii than most people are used to. Sit back, relax, follow speed limit signs, and take time to slow down.
The Island aura is all about reflection, being better humans, and spreading aloha. You’re in their home now, respect their timelines, and exercise some grace and patience. The furthest thing from a New York minute is an island afternoon.
6. Not Using Adequate Sun Protection
Just about every tourist to Hawaii has made this crucial mistake. I can’t stress enough how important it is to use and regularly apply sunscreen. Yes, we know you want to hit the beach as soon as you arrive, but you don’t want to start day one with a painful sunburn and have to stay in the shade for the rest of your trip.
Even if you typically do fine in the sun, the UV index in Hawaii hovers higher than on the mainland so be sure to protect yourself. If your skin tends to burn quickly, avoid being in the sun between 10am-2pm. That’s when it’s the strongest in Hawaii.
Hawaii is also pretty strict when it comes to what kind of sunscreen to use, as many were banned in 2021. That is why it’s suggested that when you get to the island, buy reef-safe sunscreen at a local store. That way, there is no question you’re getting the right stuff.
7. Not Respecting Nature
Hawaii is home to some of the most beautiful plants and animals on our planet. These living things are part of a very complex living ecosystem that is delicately balanced. When people come along and disrupt that balance, it can have long-lasting and sometimes devastating effects on the island. Removing plants, rocks, shells, or touching and harassing animals from the islands can result in criminal charges, fines, and even jail time.
For 1.5 million people, Hawaii is their home. For everyone else, we’re guests in their backyard and should respect it as such. Which ties into the next topic…
8. Disregarding Warning Signs
If social media has taught me anything, it’s that people love going to illegal places or ignoring warning signs to get the ultimate Instagram shot. The warning signs are there for a reason. If there is a sign posted at the location you want to go to, don’t go. These signs are put up to keep you on the path to safety.
Here are some things to look out for and what to do:
🏖 Beach Safety
Hawaii beach safety is a big deal. Some beaches have lifeguards, but many of them do not. Swimming in Hawaii can be very dangerous, so if you see a warning sign or flag about the shore break or rip currents, it’s best to avoid going into the ocean at that time. These beach warnings are posted so that tourists and locals know when it’s not safe to be on the beach or in the water.
🌩 Storms and Hiking
After it rains, many hiking trails can get extremely muddy and slippery, creating dangerous conditions. Also, if the hike you want to go on is deep into the jungle, you can experience flash flooding, which could turn fatal. If it’s raining, it’s always best to avoid going on any hikes. Please wait until it clears and try hiking on a different day.
Also, if there’s a storm on the horizon, avoid dangerous places like cliff walls and hiking.
🔒 Private Property
There are also a lot of hikes and waterfalls that take place on private property. There are some that the owners don’t mind you accessing if you are respectful, but there are several where tourists don’t have permission to visit. If you’re caught, you’ll have to pay a fine, and you also risk your health and safety. If there’s a sign posted that tells you to keep out, do what it says.
🥾 Illegal Hikes
There are several illegal hikes in the islands, and there’s signage stating as such. One well-known one is the Stairway to Heaven on Oahu. There are no trespassing signs posted there because the stairs were damaged during a storm, and no one has fixed them, creating hazardous conditions. Guards often show up here, and if you are caught, you’ll have to pay a hefty fine. There are plenty of great hikes that are legal, so stick to those.
🌄 Sacred Land
Many areas around the islands are considered sacred and have significant historical and cultural meaning. Whether it be burial grounds, petroglyphs, or a Heiau (temple sites), be respectful and follow any signage. A common practice when visiting a sacred place in Hawaii is to leave a ho’okupu (a small offering), such as a lei, a fruit, nuts, or a plant.
It’s also bad luck to bring lava rock home because you’ll risk the wrath of Pele, the Hawaiian goddess of fire and volcanoes. Plus, we’ve all seen the Brady Bunch episode with the bad juju that followed them from taking a Tiki artifact they found.
Take photos and absorb the information, but be respectful and leave things be.
9. Only Packing Clothing for Warm Weather
The media depicts Hawaii as a perfect paradise 100% of the time, and while it’s somewhat true, Hawaii still has a rainy season and is often the victim of tropical storms. This is the tropics, so be sure to pack for a rainy day or two.
If you’ll be attending a luau, going out for a nice dinner, or playing golf, you’ll need some appropriate clothing options. Also, if you’re visiting Haleakala or exploring Hawaii Volcanoes National Park, you’ll want some layering options and even a jacket. Haleakala is very cold even during the day, and Volcanoes National Park gets chilly at night. The best advice is to make a list of all of the Hawaii activities on your itinerary, then pack accordingly.
10. Leaving Valuables in Your Car
One thing that people often forget is that there are thieves, no matter where you go, and Hawaii is no exception. Even though Hawaii is such a safe and friendly environment, it’s wise not to create an opportunity. Lock your car doors no matter where you are, and don’t leave valuables in plain sight in your car. I can’t stress this enough.
It would also be wise not to put things in your trunk after you park, because thieves could be watching. (Speaking from personal experience) Put your valuables in the trunk before you arrive at your destination, or use a smaller bag and carry it with you.
Are you ready?
Hawaii truly is paradise, but as you can see, there’s much more to planning the perfect island getaway than booking a flight and hotel. The difference between a good Hawaii vacation and an absolutely magical one often comes down to insider knowledge and careful planning.
After helping countless clients discover the real Hawaii since 2019, I’ve seen firsthand how these simple mistakes can turn dream vacations into missed opportunities. But I’ve also witnessed the pure joy on families’ faces when they experience the authentic aloha spirit, watch their first Hawaiian sunset from a secluded beach, or feel the mist from a waterfall they never would have found on their own.
Whether you’re dreaming of luxury resorts on Maui, adventure hiking on the Big Island, or family fun on Oahu, each Hawaiian island offers something completely different. The key is matching the right island – and the right experiences – to what makes your heart sing.
Don’t let these common pitfalls rob you of the Hawaiian vacation you’ve been dreaming about.
Ready to plan your perfect Hawaiian escape? I’d love to help you navigate the islands like a local and create memories that will last a lifetime. From insider tips on the best reef-safe sunscreen to secret beaches the guidebooks don’t mention, I’ll make sure you experience Hawaii the right way.
Contact me today to start planning your personalized Hawaiian adventure, and don’t forget to download my comprehensive Hawaii Guide packed with everything you need to know for an unforgettable island experience.
Your perfect Hawaiian story starts with a single conversation – let’s make it happen! 🌺